thanks for the reply

Nov 08, 2012,17:56 PM
 

Thanks for your thoughts.  I think you make a lot of really good points.


I think you hit the nail on the head by explaining that there's a difference between someone who admires your watch because it's a symbol of wealth versus someone who admires it out of horological appreciation, with the former being a nuisance and the latter being more likely to be a welcomed gesture.

My guess, and I mean no offence, is that Rolexes/Omegas (and perhaps Panerais) are far more likely to garner the former while the FP Journes/Vacherons/etc. are more likely to garner the latter.  Everyone knows what a Rolex is and they serve (for better or worse) as a status symbol, whereas only a WIS would recognize the others (again, for better or worse).

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Watch Spotting Etiquette

 
 By: lnurmo : November 8th, 2012-09:17
Dear all, I am a relatively new poster to this forum although a long-time lurker. I would like to thank all the contributors here who have vastly expanded my knowledge and appreciation of fine watches. On to my question: I live in New York and at least a ... 

my thoughts and experiences

 
 By: CGJ0 : November 8th, 2012-09:29
At the age of 18 I started to get into watches and habitually wrist check people ever since. I get the obvious comments from people of a similar age (earlier twenties) saying 'nice watch' 'is that a rolex?' Etc. And to be honest it does het a bit tiresome... 

thanks for the reply

 
 By: lnurmo : November 8th, 2012-17:56
Thanks for your thoughts. I think you make a lot of really good points. I think you hit the nail on the head by explaining that there's a difference between someone who admires your watch because it's a symbol of wealth versus someone who admires it out o... 

Agreed...

 
 By: CGJ0 : November 12th, 2012-01:32
I do agree with you; I hate to say it (especially as a Rolex owner). I've been known to comment to some of my friends that "gold-digging" women actually are incredibly ignorant. If you set out to gold dig you wouldn't go for the guy necessarily with the R...  

It's a great conversation starter

 
 By: patrickmaniac : November 8th, 2012-20:00
esp when you run into another like minded watch lover. But staring is a no no. cheers PAt

I wouldn't say anything....

 
 By: KIH : November 9th, 2012-00:03
... unless his/her taste is strikingly similar to mine. If I find someone on the street or in the meeting or at the party who wears my favorite brands, I wouldn't be able to help talking to the person. But on the subway, that may lure the bad guy's appeti... 

Let me illustrate my position on that matter with an example.

 
 By: amanico : November 9th, 2012-00:24
I was invited by a parisian AD to the 2008 Soccer European Championship to attend a game between Germany and Poland. I was in Klagenfurt, Austria. So, once arrived at the hotel, we took the bus to go to the Stadium. There were only 7 people in the bus. Th... 

Great story!

 
 By: lnurmo : November 9th, 2012-13:58
That's a great story! I also like your analogy. :)

Lesson for life that:

 
 By: CGJ0 : November 12th, 2012-01:36
'If you feel you have the opportunity to do it well, do it. If you doubt, don't do it.' True to a lot of situations. I might cut out the last sentence as for a life "motto" it could be seen as slightly defeatist ;)

You did well?!

 
 By: sanro : November 12th, 2012-06:03
Now, that is optimism, Nicolas! If I remember correctly, France ended up LAST of its qualifying group even after Romania... ...and Spain went on to win the Cup... Watches, I am sure, were secondary on those dates. I can imagine you veeeery sad... :)

No, I had no pressure, France was not attending.

 
 By: amanico : November 12th, 2012-06:24
Thanks for moving the knife in the wound. :) Best, my friend. Nicolas

It depends on the context ...

 
 By: AndrewD : November 11th, 2012-13:02
Extremely rare for me to engage a complete stranger in a setting where watches are not the focus. It seems rather intrusive and creepy to me, and may be construed badly. It may be different if I was wearing the same brand and could flash a wrist back at t... 

Depends on the watch.

 
 By: HPoirot : November 18th, 2012-03:14
Sometimes i really cannot help but be amazed by a person's watch, and i will give a short compliment. But that really depends on what watch it is. I never comment on Rolex's because i find that there's probably a large majority of the owners who buy Rolex...